Today I'm going to show you one of the most common
mistakes that the novice Smart Dater make:
Trying to be perfect.
The biggest mistake
that I often catch my students
make is spending too much time READING things and "preparing"
themselves for meeting their dream girl instead of actually
DOING and practicing the things I've taught them.
Listen. You will *never* be perfect.
Even I am not perfect. (And I've been doing this for
years!)
Here is's a rule that I am probably going to add to
the next Smart Dating Course update:
"Good enough is enough."
Don't try to learn every single technique before you
start flirting with women.
Don't try to be think of every possible scenario or
outcome before you approach a woman.
Don't wait until you're "perfect" before you approach
a woman.
second try, or even third try. These skills take time and patience
to develop. If you obsess about being perfect the first time
you talk to a woman, you'll NEVER get to talk to her - period.
So instead of worrying about getting it right the FIRST
time, focus on taking ACTION.
Go crash and burn - I beg of you.
won't be a waste...because you can only GET BETTER.
I promise that you will learn *much* faster if you
actually go out and PRACTICE instead if just reading my dating
tips.
But of course...the biggest objection to this is, "But
I can't afford to fail...because she's the only girl I like and
she means everything to me..."
Well...let's just say that if you have this kind of
attitude, then the battle has been been lost. Until you can
detach yourself from the outcome of a situation, you're never
going to be *really* good in an area - be it dating or any
other area of your life.
Here's the assignment of the week: I want you to get
off your lazy butt and...
1) Make eye contact and smile at 25 women you do not
know.
2) Flirt with every woman you talk to casually.
3) Tease the attractive women.
4) Compliment the unattractive women.
5) Go out twice.
Sources:TZMPAKAAU,Madam Noire,ft.com and datingkeys
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